You Don't Have to Surrender and Forgiveness is Optional.

To surrender is to give up; admit defeat. And to what or to whom are you surrendering to?

Surrendering does not really leave any resonance of confidence or happiness. Aren't success and happiness top essentials to achieve success?

Choose instead to take the most logical next steps. Be ever learning, ever expanding, always evolving. Research, apply, tweek, learn, grow!

And you don't like to forgive...... don't condemn.